Love is a very strange thing, people from clans, tribes, nations and different colors find themselves in a deep pool. You find yourself in a time when everyone sees nothing more valuable than their partner. This is a time when not only the word betrayal does not exist but lovers do not even feel that there is a life without the one they love.
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Betrayal is something with unbearable pain, especially if it is something unexpected. One doesn't feel like it's going to happen until it happens. At the end of this week, pictures of a man who committed suicide due to love have spread. This reminded me of an informal study I was about to do on why men are more hurt by betrayal than women.
4 reasons why men get hurt more in love
1. Men are not quick to say what happened to them.
If you listen to the media or read newspapers, it is easy to find a story of a woman crying after her boyfriend, girlfriend or husband leaves with another woman. But it is very rare to find a man moaning! It's not because they don't get hurt or they don't have injuries, but it's because for men it seems like humiliating themselves to say that.
They don't even want their friends. They end up hurting alone, they end up grieving alone, which leads to serious wounds in the heart. Continuing to nurture anger that sometimes leads them to make strange and surprising decisions for society.
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2. A man likes to stay strong on something all the time
Yes, for a man to have people who obey him, who respect him and listen to him is something that gives him comfort and makes him proud. When a man is with a woman, he likes to see the woman submissive to him, obeying him and listening to him, according to your information, a man does not like even the woman he doesn't love to be the first to say enough is enough, or to be with another man, when that happens, it makes the man feel that he lacks something, it makes him feel that he is not better than that that's where the problem starts.
3. Men have a habit of trusting the woman they are with
One of the most difficult tasks for a man is to make him trust another person to a large extent. It can take years to reach the point of trusting another person, especially a woman. But when it happens he does not believe the total. The act of trusting your partner too much brings serious consequences before the journey.
Unlike a woman who always turns on the warning light and knows that it is possible at any moment that her lover will turn away and when it really happens her shock cannot be the same as a man who trusts his partner very much. A woman can have an affair or even marry a man who does not believe in her, it is difficult for a man to do that.
4. It is not easy for a man to transfer love
In the world men are the ones who lead because they are traitors, there is a saying that says 'every guy cheats', the truth we don't know is that men cheat more than women but they do it because of the lust of their bodies and their souls stay with their permanent partner
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It is not easy for a man to leave the woman he loves and transfer that love to another woman. When a woman is lonely and a person appears who gave her that loneliness, she has killed her heart.
Betrayal has happened, he has decided as he decided, that is not the end of life, there are many reasons for you to continue living and enjoying life. Perhaps this can help you wake up again and see that life is there and there is no reason for you to be hurt.
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